Dick Move #1

Well have I got a whopper for you all tonight.

So, i have been between guys for the past few months, recently adding in a few more and losing a few. So this morning my current triangle was my ex...lets call him Ryan and this new guy who I know from a friend (lets call him hottie...at least until he fucks that up as all guys will)

So I still had some very little feelings for my ex, its really just me looking for someone to cuddle with and kiss, since I have been out of the dating ring for a while.

So lucky for me one of my friends lives near him. I was planning on going to my friends tomorrow (Wednesday) to hang with her and makeout with him.

(Me and Ryan had been flirting back and forth for weeks and both agreed we should hook up, meaning makeout in this particular situation.)

So, this morning after not hearing from my friend or him for a few days I texted him asking if i was still coming (he and my friend talk all the time so I thought he might know)

He texted me back saying.

I dont know if you should, sorry.

I said,

How come :)

He said

Cuz I kinda like another girl alot, Im sorry :(

I said.

Ok

Now question for all the ladies out there. Why should we as a powerful gender still feel burned by this kind of rejection when we only have minimal feelings and attraction for another person. Its not fair that I felt hurt for all of ten minutes. Its not fair that someone who previously had one of his friends break up with me gets to hurt me again for even ten minutes.

On a happy note, i will share that I have never shed one tear over this buttface.

Why do we take guys back when they treat us like dirt? Why do we only remember the good times until they push us too far? Why does it take so long to realize, OMG asshole alert.
I would really like to know.

So, in the end I was mature, I told one trusted friend and my cousin, who is one of my best friends. So at least I didnt air this dick move on facebook, now I can feel like the bigger person... right?

XOXO

Rory.