Moving On

I find, now this is just me, but I find that it takes me a while to stop obsessing and liking people who I had strong feelings for. I cannot merely eat ice cream, cry for a night and move on. For instance, the last guy who screwed me over, I liked him for two weeks and it took me two weeks to move on and stop asking my friends what he was doing.

Now I am over it. He can date who he wants and do what he wants and I dont really care. I think the fact that guys can screw us royaly and we still have feelings for them (IM NOT THE ONLY ONE!) is amazing. It goes against everything strong women believe. If someone screws us over to such a huge extent, we should cut them off and not care what or WHO they do. Yet for boys, its a different story. We still care, and if not in a caring way an obsessive keep them away from everyone else way. Strange.

I do want to mention something happy though. And before I do, I want to say nothing is happening yet, and I will not go into detail because whenever I tell you about a pre-mature thing I jinx it!

I found a new crush. We flirt, and its nice.

Thats as far as Im taking that until it progresses.

He said he was going to take me out.
yay.

So, I want to know, has anything like this happened to you, you take forever to move on or do you just move on in an instant? Lemme know!